Here’s how you can have a breakthrough and start to succeed with women like never before. This article has two emails from one of my coaching clients.
This is the same client who was putting every beautiful woman on a pedestal instead of acting like himself around them. He’s 30, an ARMY vet and going to college for Criminal Justice. He’s been getting some mixed results.
Here’s his email:
How the hell are you man? Well a lot of crazy shit has been happening in the world since the last time we talked and its only been what not even 2 weeks? I hope things are going well over there on your side of the country 🙂
Anyways I’m done with the semester, fuckin smoked it, 3A’s and 2B’s, so now its chill status for a month, I could also focus on getting ready for the triathlon that I signed up for the only thing is that its been windy as hell here in NM so it makes it a bit rough to train outside, also I’m getting my mind right for the sheriffs exam that I take on the 21 so overall I’ve got my hands full. However I still gotta make time for pleasure ya dig? LOL
On that note, been getting some hit and misses with the ladies, I still haven’t heard from Tina the one gal that I was telling you I gave my number to, I ran into my cousin and he mentioned that she’s still dating that firefighter dude, and he’s got her on “lock down,” so I just figured its all good, I’ll be here whenever he fucks up, she’s got my number, and I got nothing but time so its all good.
Well I got a date this thursday with this gal that I used to mess with years ago so I’m going to see how that turns out. Corey remember that gal I was telling you about from my hometown that threw the counteroffer at me back in march and I shot it down because I did not want to go out with her and her cockblocking friends? well guess what brother, I set up a date with her this friday and we made definite plans, I know your probably thinking “friday, what the fuck” but thats the only day I can make it, my moms b-day is saturday and I told her I was going in to town on friday, I shot her a text and we texted back and forth for about 5 minutes then I asked her if she had plans friday evening and if she wanted to go for a drink, she mentioned that she is having dinner with her aunt and uncle at 8 but would really like to see me before, I told her if she has other plans then not to worry there will always be another time but I just really wanted to see her since I was only in town for a short while, she replied that she really wanted to see me too and asked if I could pick her up around 6? so I said “sounds good, text me your address and I will pick you up at 6” she sent me her address and said “see you friday” so I left it at that. what do you think Corey? I got a good feeling about this one, so just gotta play the waiting game now ya know? As for the other gal that I met at the club last week I sent her a text yesterday on monday she didn’t even remember who I was, I told her I was the handsome dude she gave her number to at the club 1ups she said I think you got the wrong number, so I just replied with “oh well, sorry to inconvenience you then, have a good night” and I deleted her number.
I’ve been thinking a lot about what you said how I am still putting attractive women on a pedestal that they don’t deserve yet, and your absolutely right corey I have been, I’m working on it tho brother, its a bit rough at times but I’ll manage, I’m off for a month now from school so my ass is going to be out practicing and trying to enhance the skills. well I gotta close for now corey, sorry about the long ass email. Hope this email finds you in good spirits my friend/coach.
Here’s what he wrote me after his date:
Whats going on my man? Things went well for me this weekend brother. First of all the date I had last thursday cancelled on me but it was all good because I was not really feeling it either, however, the one I had friday was great.
Here’s a play by play alright, I had set the plans (definite) since monday for a friday evening I mentioned why on a friday in the last email, (certain circumstances) but anyway so I didn’t text or call her for the rest of the week, then on friday afternoon she text’s me saying “hey are we still on for tonight at 630?” I replied with “of course, why wouldn’t we be 😉 ?” and she replied with “Great, I was just checking” so when I got off work I packed and drove back to my home town, well friday at 615 she calls and my first thought was ahhh shit she’s gonna cancel, so I answered and to my surprise she said he I’m just calling to tell you I have to drop off my daughter then I’ll be right back, so I just said “no problem I’ll see u in a while” so then 15 min later she texts me and says I’m back, so I went to pick her up, dude corey she looked amazing, this chik does photo shoots she’s an actual model, so when I saw her come out of her house I was in shock, first thing that came to my mind was “wholly shit this is unreal” on the inside I was like “dam I don’t deserve this” keep in mind this is the gal I was telling you about that my sister said she always see’s her with different dudes (she has her choice with men).
So I kinda shelled up for a instant, than it came to me and I just said Fuck it, I am worthy to be in this woman’s presence and I am worthy to take her out, so I made up my mind that I’m going to try to show her a good time and get her to laugh, well we got past the hello’s and she said “where do you want to go?”, so I mentioned a place and she said great. Corey when we walked into this bar all the heads turned and looked right at us, I was like WOW, but I played it cool and acted like “Im the motherfucker around here” you know what I’m sayin? lol. So things were going great I was asking questions and letting her do most of the talking and man did she open up, I was getting her to laugh and get comfortable which she did/was so then she said her sister and 2 lady friends wanted to join us and asked me if I minded, so I just said “its cool” so the arrived about 9, so we just hung out I was able to get her sis and the friends to laugh and be comfortable as well, anyways the night went on and we all had a good time, she was slowly getting closer and closer to me as the night went on as well, until we were actually holding hands, it was like you said corey, “heat seeking missile analogy” so when I took her home we were making out at every red light, dude corey it was absolutely amazing, she was telling me how she felt so comfortable with me, so I told her that was my goal for the night so when we got to her house we kissed some more then we said goodnight, oh yea corey she kept asking me why I picked her why I wanted to go out with her, she was telling me that I could have any woman I wanted why her? I just said because I thought she was an amazing women.
So anyways the next day she text’d me with “G’morning! I think those draft beers last night are killing me today:) lol” and I replied back with “yea my head was pounding when I woke up” then she replied with “I had a wonderful time last night, thank you sooooo much” and I replied with “your welcome dear, it was my pleasure,” so that was the last contact I had with her, dude corey inside I want to text her so bad but i’m not doing it, I’m staying strong brother, studying the book and just trying to be different to what I’m sure she’s used to. during out time alone before company showed up she was telling me how she was in a bad relationship with a cop in my hometown, (go figure), lol and how this yoyo was very controlling and was a stalker/psycho, and that she would never date a cop again, so when she asked me what I was going to school for I was kinda hesitant on answering but then I said fuck it, I’m a centered SOB, and told her, I hate to burst your bubble but thats exactly what I’m going to school for is Law Enforcement, she just kinda looked at me with a “ahhh shit” kinda look. lol, but she accepted it because we were kissing at the end of the night, so go figure, anyways that was my friday night date corey, I had to do it on a friday because that was the only window I had. so any feedback would be greatly appreciated my man, overall I think I did pretty good, not yet a jedi but I’m working on it my brother.
Once again Thanks for the guidance Corey, if it wasn’t for you I woulda probably fumbled a long time ago or manage to fuck it up in one way or another with my old-self. Hope to hear from you soon my man
PS: sorry about the freakin novel. lol
Now the big reason I wanted to share these emails with you is to impress upon you how quickly things can turn around. When you are meeting women, getting phone numbers/or giving out yours so they call you, setting up dates, going on dates and making a move at the times I discuss in “How To Be A 3% Man”, you start to see some patterns. You start to notice the difference in how a woman with high interest level in you treats you vs a woman with low interest.
Can you read the excitement in Tom’s second email? That’s what I call a breakthru. Every date that goes well from this point forward will be similar for him. His standards are going up and he will get jerked around by flaky women less. By using and applying what I teach in my book you will get better at DQ’ing (dis-qualifying) women who don’t have a high enough level of interest in you to start with.
After having a great date like my client has just had, how likely is he to set another date in the future with a woman who is flaky, or does not want to nail down something specific with him? Women that don’t want to set a definite date with you are usually leaving a way to break it later. Therefore, you should never set those kind of dates. If you do, there is a 99% chance you will end up being disappointed and feeling rejected.
If you want to have a breakthrough and succeed with women like never before, you need to talk to women, get phone numbers, set dates and go out on dates. Its a numbers game. You simply need to get thru the no’s in order to get to the first yes… then the second… then the third… etc. As I say all of the time, repetition is the mother of skill.
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