Never Mow Another Man’s Lawn

Jun 1, 2011 by Coach Corey Wayne
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You should never hit on or try to steal a girl from another guy. In other words… never mow another man’s lawn. How would you feel if some guy was trying to rip-off your girlfriend?

Here’s an email question I got recently from a guy who is contemplating just that. My comments are in (bold brackets like this):

Hi Corey,

Nice story you sent today.

I am 56 and have the hots for this 23 yr old yet she has had a boyfriend only for about 2 years. She has no idea how much I like her or I the fact I want to date her (women care only about their interest level in you, not yours in them). She seems happy where she is, working min wage at a restaurant (that’s what a lot of people her age do). Yet I have been there and done that and know she isn’t happy with her job, if I only knew if she was happy with boyfriend or not, I would make a move.

She has a great taste for clothes that show off her perfect “10” figure.

I am okay thanks to my wonderful business and could really offer her a lot yet don’t want that in the picture (then why did you bring it up?). I want her to want me for who I am, not for what I have.

Do I make a move? (she’s taken) or

Do I let her know how I feel about her? (she’s unavailable) or

Do I wait & see what time provides? Destiny? (hit on women who are available)

Thanks

Tom

It appears you are projecting your own sky-high interest level onto this waitress and not paying any attention to the fact she has a boyfriend, and is therefore… not available. In my article “Do You Bullshit Yourself?” I talk about another guy who is doing something similar to you. Going into the same restaurant over and over, spending his money and then not asking the waitress he likes for her number. You on the other hand, are going back to the same waitress over and over who you know is not available, and engaging in this mental circle-jerk with yourself.

You are allowing yourself to get caught up in a fantasy with this unavailable waitress. Going back week after week. When you are not there you are thinking about her. Meanwhile, as the days, weeks and months tick by of your life, you ignore and block out all of the thousands of available single women you could be interacting with and dating.

Its comfortable. Easy. You don’t have to risk rejection with other women. Instead you avoid getting out and living life by getting caught up in this fantasy with an unavailable girl. Its a good way to avoid a relationship, working on becoming a better and more successful man, being rejected and having to participate in life. You are a spectator of life.

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Published on June 1, 2011

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  1. You are so very right! Men like this guy focus on women who are unavailable and out of their reach for whatever reason- be it age or in a relationship. I think it’s because they’re insecure and fear relationships. They spend too much time on the unavailable people and miss out on the ones who could and would date them. I also have to say, that big of an age difference is disgusting. They have nothing in common. I have young boys and young men hit on me all the time but there is no way it would ever happen because I just can’t find someone who’s in my child’s age range attractive. To me, they’re still “kids”. She’s young enough to be his child…and could actually be younger than any kids he has. He was 30 when she was born and he’s eying her in a sexual way. That’s just gross. That also reaffirms that he probably has a lot of insecurity issues. He should look for mature women who can appreciate him as more than just a meal ticket. Men aren’t the only ones guilty of it..women do it too. Either way, it’s not a good thing.

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