She Said If I Really Loved Her I Wouldn’t Care She’s Pregnant With Another Man’s Baby!

What it means if she comes back after getting pregnant with another man’s baby.

In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who sends an update to his situation from my video newsletter, Female Parasitic Dating Mercenary. She eventually came back, but blew him off and ghosted him again. Now she’s back a 3^rd time, says she wants to marry him but is pregnant with another guys baby. She said if he really loved her that he wouldn’t care that she’s pregnant with another man’s child. My comments are in bold italics like this below in the body of his email.

Hi, I’m Coach Corey Wayne and this is my Video Coaching Newsletter in the topic of today’s Newsletter is going to be, “She Said If I Really Loved Her I Wouldn’t Care She’s Pregnant With Another Man’s Baby!”

So this particular email is an update to a Video Newsletter that I did was a Members Only Newsletter titled, “Female Parasitic Dating Mercenary”. And so this particular woman; this guy is in, I think he’s in Dubai. And so this woman he was kind of dating and hanging out, he was a little too much of a nice guy. She was dating other dudes. And then she ended up blowing him off and got serious with some other guy.

Then she came back and he hung out with her, made a little bit more progress, but she still blew him off and ghosted him a second time. And now for the third time, she’s back, but she apparently got knocked up. And so she’s pregnant with another guy’s child. She’s come back and now she says, I want to marry you. And he’s like, what? Like you’re pregnant with some other guy’s kid.

She’s like, well, if you really love me, like you said, you wouldn’t care that I’m pregnant with somebody else’s kid. And so after this, he’s like, he had to send in an email because he’s like, what do you think of this, coach? This is crazy. There are women that are for fun, and there are women that are for family. And this particular girl is a girl that’s for fun. But you could tell it’s just business to her.

She thinks that this guy is gullible enough and soft enough and desperate enough and needy enough that he’ll just go put a ring on her finger and marry her and raise this other dude’s kid because he clearly doesn’t want to be involved with her, obviously. Anyone’s going to be thinking, dude, fucking run from that like the plague.

Viewer Email:

Hi Coach,

Hope you’re doing great as always. I’ve been following you for years, read your book 8 times, and listen to the audio constantly. Your teachings have seriously helped me level up in dating and relationships. I want to give you an update. A crazy twist related to a newsletter titled, “Female Parasitic Dating Mercenary” you did on my situation. This situation I’m going through now feels like the next-level version, and I think it would be incredibly useful for your audience to understand how to handle these toxic and complicated scenarios.

Yeah, these women are out there in society. This is why you’ve got to know the book or you will get taken to the cleaners. Because again, these chicks are fuckin’; some of them are ruthless. They come from a broken home. They’re in survival mode. Their dads were not there, did not do a good job.

Here’s the backstory: I met this girl online here in Dubai. We dated for about two weeks, went out a few times. It was fast and passionate at first. Then she wanted to go to a meetup.

So this is kind of bringing back, you know, because it’s been quite a few months since the original, Video Newsletter. But, this is a crazy thing. They go to this meetup.

There, I caught her flirting with another guy right in front of me. When I called her out on it, she broke things off, saying that was the reason.

I think if I remember she said he was jealous or insecure or some shit. It’s like, I’m here on a date with you and you’re flirting with other dudes in my face. But she didn’t really care too much. Because the reality is she was just looking to get whatever the best guy she could get. And clearly this other guy she was talking to, she thought he was a better candidate. So even though she supposedly came there with him and was on a date with him, she just treated him like dirt. Just, you know, monkey branch to another guy at the event, and then he’s like, yeah, see you later, fuck off, and then dumps him.

Months later, she reached out wanting to move in with me.

Because, you know, whoever this guy was she was with, I mean, she seems to behave like a total narcissist. Love bombing in the beginning, then the gaslighting and the elevation and all that stuff comes along. Again, you know, just imagine the hottest girl you’ve ever seen, the best body you’ve ever seen. Charming, sweet, fun. You’ve got to be able to see past that to see what her actions are like.

And so going through these kinds of emails can wake you up to what the hell is out there in society. There are societies full of people that are not very good. Character is destiny, and you’ve got to be able to spot people of low character. It’s not normal to show up after several months and go, hey, let’s move in together. And then when you’re less than enthusiastic, she’s nasty to you. Or it just dips from your life again.

Months later, she reached out wanting to move in with me. She told me about a toxic guy she had gotten involved with, a man who got her hooked on drugs and leeched off her financially.

So she’s looking for the dude at the brass ring, yet she was basically with a bum who got her hooked on drugs. Again it’s clear that this girl comes from a broken home.

I followed your 7 Principles of Getting Your Ex Back strictly and only invited her over to my place. We hooked up, but she was hot and cold, withholding intimacy and then ghosted me again.

So it’s like she knew that she had the power and he was really thirsty for her, and so she withheld sex. But then she went and fucked a bum, basically. A guy who had nothing going on.

A few more months passed, and now she’s back. I invited her over again, but this time, no kisses, no sex. She confessed she’s pregnant with another man’s child. She stayed over, and the next day she asked me to marry her.

No sex, no kissy poo, no nothing. Oh, let’s get married. Oh, sure, a great idea. Then what? We’ll be roommates? And I pay your bills and I get no pussy. What do I get out of this?

That’s when things got intense. She started yelling, emotionally blackmailing me, saying things like, “If you loved me, you wouldn’t care whose baby it is.” 

It’s like. So this chick is, she’s clearly fucked. She’s a little fucked in the head. This is not something you can work with, but it is amusing because; and sad. But it just shows what’s out there. You’ve got to watch what you’re doing, gentlemen. Especially if you’re a high income, high net worth individual. You got to make sure you wear a raincoat and flush that thing. Don’t leave it in the trash can.

I stayed calm and told her straight that marriage was not an option under these circumstances. I do feel bad for her situation, but it’s clearly toxic and complicated.

Well, it’s not your problem. It’s her problem. And whoever knocked her up.

How do you recommend handling something like this?

You don’t. You just say, good luck. Hope you live happily ever after. Go find some other sucker that, you know, will help you out.

How do you stay compassionate without getting dragged into chaos?

Well, you’re not getting any pussy, dude. You’re just her friend. And it sounds like she wants to marry you because of what she can get from you. She’s not into you. She’s just there to use you. Remember, what was the name of the other Email Newsletter? “Female Parasitic Dating Mercenary”. So like he said, he was totally spot on when he described it as like the next level of craziness.

How do you stay compassionate without getting dragged into chaos?

It’s simply just not engage with it. Move on.

Any advice on keeping boundaries firm but fair in situations involving pregnancy, emotional manipulation, and commitment demands would be huge.

Thanks again for all your wisdom, it’s been invaluable.

Bob

Well, just say, “I think you’re a great person. I enjoyed our time together, but our goals and values are not aligned. I’m interested in sex and romance, and it looks like you want a roommate who will pay your bills. And I’m just. That’s not me, you know. Good luck. Have a nice life.” I wouldn’t even sleep with her or get involved there. That girl could have a disease. You don’t know what she’s doing. She could be a hooker or a call girl. But, you know, if she wants you to marry her. But yet she’s not willing to kiss you or have sex is like she can go on down the road because she clearly is having sex with other people because she’s pregnant with some other guy’s baby.

You got to see reality as it is and not keep giving wacky girls like this another chance, dude. Like, have some fucking self-respect and have the self-control to wish her well and walk away. Delete and block her number and move on with your life. Because this woman is bringing nothing good into your life. She may be hot, but at the end of the day, there’s no sex, no kissy poo. Because she’s clearly not into you. So don’t waste your fucking time. And certainly don’t be crazy enough to marry her. That is just nuts. But thanks for sharing the email.

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